Who pays for what?

Photograph by Phil Lynch The single most likely cause of stress in wedding preparations is often money. Most weddings run over budget. Decide on how much you can afford and stick to it!

TIP - make the most of your savings by using a high rate interest account. Most of your money will not be needed until quite near the wedding so make it work for you.

TIP - Your wedding day is just the beginning, and is only for one day. Don't end up in debt at the start of married life.

Traditional Approach

Involves the Bride, the Brides Family, the Bridegroom and the Bridegrooms Family

Modern Weddings

Sharing the cost equally
 

 

Photograph by Phil Lynch The Bride

The Bridegroom's Wedding Ring

Wedding gift for the Groom

The Hen Party

Hair and beauty Treatment

 

 

Photograph by Phil Lynch The Brides Family

Newspaper announcements

Bridal Gown

Attendants outfits

Flowers at the church and reception

Photography

Transport, Reception

Stationery

The Wedding Cake

 

 

Photograph by Phil Lynch The Bridegroom

The Engagement ring.

The Bride's Wedding Ring

Bride's Wedding Gift

Banns, Wedding License

The Stag Party

All costs related to the church bouquets for the bride and her attendants

Button holes for all male members of the wedding party

Sprays/Corsages for both mothers

Morning Suits for Ushers and Best Man

Clergy and Vergers Fee

Thank you presents for the best man and bridal attendants.

Going away Transport

Going away Corsage

The Honeymoon

 

 

Photograph by Phil Lynch The Bridegrooms Family

The Bridegrooms outfit

Church and Registry fees.

Gifts for the Bridesmaids

Brides' the Attendants flowers.

Transfer of wedding gifts to couples new home

Transport for the Groom before the Wedding

 

 

Photograph by Phil Lynch Modern Weddings

This said, Modern weddings regularly break from tradition and costs are often shared between both families. Many couples also contribute to the cost of the big day. However your wedding is to be paid for, always treat this sensitive issue with the respect it is due.


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